“The 45 Lessons Life Taught Me”

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I wanted to share this email that I received today.

As much as this is a blog heavily directed at movement and lifestyle shifts, it is also about sharing what others have to say.  I value speaking with the older generation.  They have so much to teach us, and we have so much to learn from them.  My advice is to take the time to sit down and experience how great our elders are… they have maneuvered through this beautiful struggle that we call life, and chances are good that they might have a pearl or two to share with you.

The times are much faster paced now, but the principles of a life fulfilled never seem to change.

I hope you enjoy reading through this as much as I did…

-KG

Regina Brett - The Plain Dealer

—> Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio .

“To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I’ve ever written.

My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short – enjoy it.

4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don’t have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.

7 Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.

8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye, but don’t worry, God never blinks.

16.. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.

18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.

19.. It’s never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘In five years, will this matter?’

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.

35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative of dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab our’s back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you need

42. The best is yet to come…

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.”

Life Should Be Lived: Steve Jobs Shares 3 Life Lessons We All Need to Hear… Again

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I am  an advocate of the waging war against autopilot living.

You know, the little thoughts that circle around inside of our head that tell us that we are somehow pre-disposed to having what we have and experiencing what we experience.

That we will never be anything more than average at best.

Forget that.  Shoot for the moon.

Humans are the most powerful creatures on the planet because we have the ability to re-route the road map of our live, and we can do this at any age, as long as we consciously comprehend that we have the power to do so.

Here are 3 extremely powerful (yet simple) videos from one of the greatest visionaries this planet has ever seen: Steve Jobs.

 

1)  Steve Jobs:  Secrets of Life

2)  Steve Jobs:  Failure

3)  Steve Jobs:  Passion for Life’s Pursuits

It’s an incredible thought we can re-program our minds and move in an entirely different direction from where we are now.

Life’s rough sometimes, there is no denying that, but it’s also way too short to spend any time being miserable.

Life is a game to be played, so get your ass off the bench and get yourself in the game.

Cheers to squeezing just a little more out of life!

KG